Just a draft of my action plan for my third goal as my new bullet journal is on the way and I’ll write out the final version in that!
GOAL 3: Relationships
You know, another thing I want in life is to be that one person who’s at the waiting area looking at my phone and my partner just strides in looking like an absolute bombshell. Then I would look up and be destroyed by how charisma is flying out of them with that new outfit and that “Yes! It looks absolutely wonderful on you.” and that no words could ever describe how they seem so comfortable and happy with their new clothes and just fhowbfowjdoqjfow
Has your partner or spouse betrayed you in the worst possible way? This is how to forgive them and move forward for peace.
I’m all in my feelings this week. I need to stop romanticizing shit and except reality. ￼
Aquarius ♒ October 2020 🎃 You’re Going To Be PISSED! I ALREADY KNOW!! Ta…
If we found each other in another life, please don’t talk to me.
lookin for some opinions
would it be better for person A to break up with person B because A is mentally unstable and is hiding it from B because B doesn’t deserve to go through dealing with A’s antics. A also knows they’ll never get better
so should person A break up with B to spare them from the bullshit?
A simple man-changing plan for every woman who’s ever been told she can’t — or shouldn’t — try to change her partner.
(Letter from my 35-year-old self; in case I’ll make it to 2030)
Never Regret You Stood Still
To my 2020 self, you might be reading this in a room where your sisters are around you. You’ve suffered and witnessed enough especially in times of that corona virus pandemic. I understand there’s so much on your plate now that you, yourself, cannot even fathom— from the unfathomable injustices and incompetence of your national government, corruption from your elected politicians, undisciplined fellow citizens in your city, continued crimes in those trying times, to complaining and inhumane minds of your friends and strangers in social media. You remained hopeful and faithful.
You owe this mature and forgiving soul you have to your Savior. You’re far beyond your past self if it’s not because you surrendered everything to Him. You continually pray for your national authority knowing that your creator allowed your leaders to rule because they will be used for His glory. You never lose faith in your local officials seeing that they still want the best for their constituents. You do not blame those who commit crimes even if you believe that the end never justifies the means. You forgive and understand them because no one is made sinless on earth and that they were once victims of iniquities of the world. Moreover, you never opt to unfriend your social media friends only because you have opposing beliefs and stance. You continue to love them for how you’ve known them not based on how the evil world has turned them into. I am proud of you. Your Abba is proud of you too.
I thank the Lord for your shared life and great testimonies. I praise Him for your honesty, sincerity, concern, and loyalty. I adore Him for your wonderful soul and strong beliefs. I worship Him for your undying service and unwavering wisdom. Thank you for showing your best self everyday; for trusting me with your issues that I still have now; for voicing out what you really feel at the moment; for crying and laughing in front of many and oftentimes in your quiet room; for allowing me to pray for you aloud or in silence; for accomplishing things with excellence; for the prayers you uttered for your future self; and for being who you really are.
Now, you are thirty five. You never stop dreaming and aiming high. You have aimed all degrees you once struggled with. You see the world now hundred times better than 2020 when you started that year with full of chaos and sufferings caused by both nature and humans. I thank that year for setting the new normal. I can breathe fresh air and see the wonders of mother earth in her cleanest state. I can hear the chirping of the birds and the whistling of trees because there is no pollution now. I can ride solar powered vehicles without forcing my body to fit into the seat. I can travel the world with more hospitable and considerate people in service. I can write emails to our president and be heard within twenty four hours. I can spend quality time with my friends because they value time and bonding more than their work. I can relax near the shore because the earth has finally healed. I can praise and worship the Almighty with my family in one congregation. I can do family devotionals now. All I see are helping hands and nonjudgmental treatment of people to one another. I do not hear gossiping and betrayal. People now are humble and generous. Thank you because you stood still.
Your past sufferings were nothing compared to how patient and strong you are now. Your success now cannot be counted by wealth but of contentment. I pray and hope that you’ll always find yourselves serving the Lord in everything that you do. I want you to be reminded everyday how vast and depth His love is for you. May you never stop trusting Him guide and fulfill His plans for you. May you not give up easily, rather see every struggle as opportunity to be patient, be better, and be bolder. May you not keep your burden to yourself rather speak to Him or to people whom you know or don’t know. May you see the wonders of life more than its punches. May you always find forgiveness in every season you are hurt or offended. May you remain humble as you live helping people. May you remain selfless and compassionate. May you stand for what is right even if it means standing alone. May you never forget Him even a second of your daily life. May you continue to grow, to love, and to aim high. Never ever regret that you stood still and fought hard the fight of faith.
Actions Steps for Identifying the Root of Jealousy
All men do is lie and compliment you during sex but never compliment you any other time
maybe i’m not actually bad, annoying, or evil but rather the people i have loved and wanted and even needed never gave me the same love and attention i gave them. maybe i give too much to people who never considered giving me even half. maybe i feel unknown by everyone because no one has seen through my guise and pushed through my walls - maybe i feel unknown because no one cared to try, because no one pushed. maybe it’s not all on me.
And The Audacious Solution to Save It