good morning,it’s friday,enjoy your cup of tea/coffee and ignore bullshit.
our love story will be epic.
he’s exactly my type 🥰
It can’t hurt to ask!
So the dating post has come up again. This time it’s just rampid about spending $40 on someone you are dating/in a relationship with. Let me say this: AS A MAN this is something that should not be an issue. To watch a woman that you are DATING and/or COMMITTED to struggle, is so immature and straight up “bitch-made”; especially when you yourself are expecting this woman to devote her time, effort, body, and soul to you. It’s something you “should/could” do for someone that is giving their all to you.
Now I will say that she should get her own situation in order before dating so this wouldn’t be an issue from the start. However, the future is never certain. So there is no telling what she is going through or how quickly her situation that caused her to need help came about. But either way, if we want our woman to let us lead, we can not conveniently pick and choose when to take on or reject the qualities and characteristics of a leader. You must be a MAN 24-7 and lead by example. If you want her to look up to you, stop putting her beneath you.
Advice: Stop looking to be someone’s KING, if you can’t even be their foundation. A REAL king supports, protects, and uplifts his country. A REAL KING will conquer the world or die before letting those under his protection suffer. In this case, the woman you are dating and/or committed to is under your protection. And if you feel like she or her situation is not your responsibility, then let her go bro. Let her fix her situation on her own since she can’t count on you, or let her find someone who will be a REAL KING to her. SIMPLE … …
I think it’s going well so far.
I am married and have voiced that I do NOT want children. Like I am actually fearful of getting pregnant. My husband has been very understanding. I have been on birth control pills but could no longer take them because I was at risk for strokes. I had the nexplanon implanted but had to get it removed after a year because it fucked up my body so so bad that I cried to my doctor to please have it removed. After the removal I made my husband promise to use a condom every single time until I could find a safe birth control method. We have been using condoms for almost 6mo. My husband had a very very hard time (still does) because he was so used to the “raw” feeling and loved it. It’s been a bit of a struggle some days with him not wanting to use a condom. There have been times where I threaten to not have sex unless he puts a condom on. Well, for the last couple of nights I’ve been very very drowsy and hazy. I am very good at remembering if I wake up at night and what I do. But lately ive had very foggy memories and I’m not sure if it’s because of my new diet and fitness routine or what. last night I thought I was dreaming about having intercourse with a man and didnt actually realize it was really happening and that man was my husband. I was horrified yet still very dazed when he turned the lights on and I found out he did not wear a condom..I felt miserable and honestly scared. I was still like 75% asleep so I couldn’t yell at him as much as I would’ve wanted to, but I do slightly remember telling him that I was upset. Today I told him and he did apologize. He said he wouldnt do it again but now I cant stop feeling weird about it. Like I didnt think it would actually impact me this much. I dont know how to move forward from it…is this normal? Am I going crazy? I just feel like the trust was somehow broken but I dont want to blame him for something he didnt mean to hurt me. I still dont remember all of what happened, just bits and pieces. He said he didnt se a problem because he felt that I wanted it even though he knows i would’ve never consented to sex without protection. Has this happened to anyone?