The purpose of shame was to silence me
I will speak out to break this spell of shame ✨
I don’t need defenses
It’s safe to be vulnerable
It’s safe to be real
I’m not sorry for saying no
It’s my right to say so
I’m not sorry for walking away
You can’t make me stay
I’m not sorry for being born
That’s a deal I had no say in
I’m not sorry for speaking my truth
I don’t have to justify myself to you
Every interaction a battle for power
I have already spent way too many hours
I’m not sorry for who I am
That’s a hold you no longer have
I’ll keep growing without you
And finding my own truth
Shame is THE WORST motivator. It’s driven by self-hatred, it’s temporary, it wrecks you especially bad when combined with jealousy. It’s been said before, but you do you. Don’t chase after what you think you should be doing, don’t drown in the regrets. Your life is your own and damn if that isn’t a good one.
I mistook the beginning of “Mister X” by Ultravox for the beginning of “Pussy” by Rammstein. I am a shame to all new wave fans 😭
The struggle 😂 shame
Jameela Jamil: Stop Shaming People | Badass Women | InStyle
i still dont know how to iron a damn shirt btw
I simply didn’t feel welcome when I tell you about my experience and I don’t feel comfortable telling you anymore, I felt judge as if you cannot believe that I did that, while at the same time feeling sorta jelly about it? but what I know for sure is that by the end of our convo I felt a bit low. I wonder why I took your discomfort personally? I’m taking time to understand and letting go of my own shame on it, and I can tell that I get easily triggered.
So I’ve been thinking about blogging for a long time now but finding the time has prevented me from doing so.
I can’t help but feel like writing what I’ve been going through is the right thing to do. Hard times have hit and bad habits don’t understand and just keep digging a hole deeper for me to climb out of. Drug addiction has amplified my money issues and I can’t seem to stop. I want to but around the same time everyday I can’t tell myself not today. In hopes of a better future I got back into college and suddenly now I’m blowing that off. Something needs to happen quick before I have no options left.
I’ll never understand how people can have children and then don‘t want them. „Let’s go, I gave birth to you, so my job is done, bye“. And then they forget they have a child at all. I don‘t get it.
y’all attack me but i’m going to say it
cameron did nothing wrong and emma did dirty on him. cameron is a really good guy and didn’t deserve that.
what is stopping me from posting self insert killjoy fanfic
not to copy and paste that one tweet but coming out as a brooke x savvy shipper was harder then coming out as a lesbian :/