Your priorities and understandings that have previously held sway may begin to experience a distinct change.
This doesn’t mean the change must destroy that which has served you and your family up to this point. It can merely mean that some new and precious understandings can be reached by all persons for whom your new energetic requirements have effect upon.
You may feel a sense of detachment about material acquisitions or of issues of power and position in the societal sense. You may even feel detached in how you view your current life as regarding the career choices and working conditions.
These Kundalini changes are often transient in that they are there to help you understand what is really important to you. They do not need to portend a discontinuance of the immediate dynamics of your complete social environment yet sometimes they will. They are as a remembrance perhaps of what is important in the present moment.
Others all around you may have different priorities. Family member’s friends and colleagues will have different priorities that may seem counter to your new realizations. You may wish to see them as areas of refinement these individuals have yet to understand or pursue and try not to judge them for this.
Yours may be the exact example that a divine source has placed amongst them so there is a teaching that can be given though one that merely responds to “expressed example” as a means of validating support.
Why does Kundalini come now in your life? I will only suggest “Why not now?” When is it appropriate for the enlightenment process to begin? Only that process can answer that as it has a far grander vision of who you really are.