#strawberry asks Tumblr posts

  • strawberrie-faerie
    20.01.2022 - 9 hours ago
    #the only thing tumblr has taught me is to give the most unhinged and/or vague replies to asks #strawberrie speaks to you specifically #π”žπ”«π”¬π”«π”Άπ”ͺ𝔬𝔲𝔰 ❓
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  • strawberryxdreams
    20.01.2022 - 9 hours ago
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    20.01.2022 - 10 hours ago
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  • strawberryxdreams
    20.01.2022 - 10 hours ago
    #WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS TO MEEEE #I cry#vacuitas#Niko asks#strawberry asks
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  • kulemii
    20.01.2022 - 12 hours ago
    #you ask me like there's an obvious correct answer #why would struggle to choose between vanilla chocolate or strawberry when i can just have neapolitan instead? #i keep saying don't underestimate my thirst #yet time and time again #the thirst is underestimated #when will you learn #when will you learn that my thirst knows no bounds?!
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  • kingsmedley
    19.01.2022 - 16 hours ago
    #let me see you show your fangs || asks #mystical-strawberry-sheep #YOU ARE KING || post-neo verse
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  • martemisss
    19.01.2022 - 17 hours ago
    #this cheered me up i love you #coconuts-coco#ask martemis #have strawberries πŸ“πŸ“πŸ“
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  • pudgybun
    19.01.2022 - 1 day ago

    my feeder and I think it would be cute if I got a chubby lil girlfriend . what do we think of this

    #i think. it would be very cute #especially if we fed each other strawberries and cream while we kiss n cuddle #n he brings us snacks #also he thinks it would be cute if i got a lil boyfren but im SCARED OF BOYYYS #asks
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  • kingsmedley
    19.01.2022 - 1 day ago
    #let me see you show your fangs || asks #nothing more than an empty ghost || headcanons #mystical-strawberry-sheep
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  • strawberryxdreams
    19.01.2022 - 1 day ago
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  • strawberryxdreams
    19.01.2022 - 1 day ago
    #Rhys asks#Strawberry asks #I'm screaming softly #mstillere #bad berries nsfw.
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  • feelslikelove
    18.01.2022 - 1 day ago
    #strawberry anon #star's favorite asks <3 #star answers
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  • meraniki
    18.01.2022 - 1 day ago
    #i have so many of these videos what the #THE LAST CLIP BYE #also yes mimi girlfriend material i can vouch for this!! /lh #[ library desk: visitors log book β€” answered asks. ] #[ regulars: mimi πŸ“ ] #DON'T CHOKE ON STRAWBERRIES YOU NEED MELTED CHOCOLATE TO GO WITH THAT /j
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  • meraniki
    18.01.2022 - 1 day ago
    #if you make a mess i will peace out /j #or i will feed you strawberries when you're asleep /j HDJWJDJKA #YAAAAAA #[ library desk: visitors log book β€” answered asks. ] #[ regulars: mimi πŸ“ ]
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  • mirrorgrets
    18.01.2022 - 2 days ago

    the only park to being sick is that i can get away with requesting food without my parents going :/ at me

    #this is specifically bc i asked for strawberries and crepes lol #rambles
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  • nymphadorathebubba
    18.01.2022 - 2 days ago
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  • eveesque
    18.01.2022 - 2 days ago
    #which is frustrating because yeah i understand misinterpreting strawberry blond #but not your best american girl because u literally can’t make it more obvious that it’s about race & the diaspora experience etc. ahh! #anon#ask
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  • sicksadstar
    18.01.2022 - 2 days ago
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  • inkskinned
    18.01.2022 - 2 days ago

    one of the hard things to learn, once you're outside of it, is that people will get upset at you sometimes. sometimes they will be hurt, or disappointed, or frustrated. sometimes you will misunderstand them or they will misunderstand you, sometimes they will disagree with you passionately, sometimes they will just have had a hard day and feel annoyed by pretty much everything.

    but people who are good people - the kind of people who you should keep - they do not rely on that feeling to guide them. they understand i'm upset right now. when they lash out, they apologize afterward. they take responsibility. even angry out of their wits, they try not to cross boundaries - they don't say things to hurt you, they don't break your things, they don't make you afraid. they take space or deep breaths or write it down before replying. they work hard to not-be-upset, they return to you and say. okay. i'm sorry i lost my temper, that was really upsetting for me. i'm ready to listen this time, let's solve this as a team.

    there is a gripping , soul-crushing fear i have of making someone upset. i catastrophize the situation. being upset is dangerous. is to be solved immediately, regardless of what it takes out of me.

    there is no person on earth who can always be happy with you. someone who is never upset with you is likely someone who is pretending. but the hard thing for me to learn was that being upset with me was not a binary love/unlove, friend/enemy. it was not - that person hates you now, forever. it was instead - there's a whole spectrum of use for an apology. my trauma doesn't understand the lighter grey shades at all - the idea someone can have just a passing displeasure because i stepped on their foot or misheard their coffee order. that a person might just be upset at the situation, and not even think to hold it against me.

    i used to avoid any contact with a person i thought i had even vaguely upset - interrupting them by accident, or, once, because i had not known about a rare allergy before i made dessert for our company - on the assumption that it was one-and-done. once someone disliked me, it was permanent. or else, maybe worse: i would have to work, tirelessly, wrought over with it, like a sick sad puppy. i would do anything to make the person love me. i didn't make a lot of close friends. i assumed nobody really liked me, because of course they don't, i'm annoying. i wanted to get out of their life before they realized i am worse than they had expected. i wanted to get out before i could prove them right.

    i wish i could give you a happy ending to this. i am still carrying it with me. people pleasing. my therapist admits she isn't too surprised ("well, it sort of perfectly fits with your history of trauma and adhd"). i feel rejection like an open wound, all gaping and torn inside me. i hate the idea so much that i simply assume the worst and skitter myself into the dark corners, cowering. thinking - i've done it! i've made everyone safe from me! if i'm in here, and they're out there, they can never be upset with me!

    and what kind of a life it is. so safe and so potently lonely.

    #spilled ink#writeblr #it was a strawberry allergy #i usually ALWAYS ask and i thought that i had #and i had made strawberry tartes #and i fucking still think about it #i felt so bad :( #did i make her new tartes literally the next day and stay up until 3:30 to do so? #of course!!! i'm mentally ill!!! #of course okay to reblog
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