I'm never gonna get the chance to play Evander, my rebellious runaway rich bastard, but I just think about him forgoing the luxuries of his birth family (along with the abuse and neglect) and instead taking his mutual pining physician's apprentice friend to go become pirates.
He gets a whole new family! And they don't see him as the disappointing evidence of his mother's infidelity. They see him as the well spoken and involved first mate.
He's not the spare to the 3 heirs ahead of him while on the ship. He's the tactician and source of trading knowledge and a clever devil and the first to jump into the fray and a damn good leader and organizer. And they find out his handwriting is unfairly pretty and that he knows so many different types of dances and even more types of braids and he'll gladly teach you during downtime.
He has so many names because he's so full of love.