When you have to stay home from school two days in a row because of vaccine side effects 😀👍
wait Wait WAIT VANESSA WILLIAMS is going to be the new dispatcher??! x
I made connections to three ocs I didn't think I'd connect honestly.
Now Lucy(I'll change her name later u-u) is Shika and Okami's Grandma. Jes stayed by his bestie's side all along and that's how he met the kids.
Pet of the Week: Penny | Blog: The Pet Shop
This cute and playful lady is Penny. Penny is an 8-year-old female hound. It was originally handed over to Trid’s SPCA in June 2020.. Penny was adopted but returned because they could not give her the house she needed.. Penny has a lot of energy and needs space to run and play. A house to play with children would be a plus. Maybe your family is looking for a dog like Penny to fill the space in…
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I forgot where I found this joke but I made an edit about it. And yeah are your parents also acting like this 💀💔?
look at this boy peeking over my second monitor 🌿💚
According to Grandma’s secret to prevent the friction between hands and baby’s skin oil massages have a variety of benefits. The massage helps your baby to feel relaxed and improve your sleep and promote healthy growth.
The health benefits of massage for a newborn:
Massage provides comfort:
To stimulate the circulatory and digestive systems baby massage is very necessary. This also improves the gas, cramps, colic, and constipation among newborn babies. Muscular tension, growing pains, and teething pain are common among babies but massage helps to provide comfort.
Massage facilitates weight gain:
If you want to promote the growth and overall health of a child then baby massage is very essential. According to studies with proper massage chances of weight gain among babies increase more than the premature babies. They appeared more aware and their bone density also increases quickly as compared to those who did not receive proper massage.
Massage reduces stress:
According to Grandma’s Secrets to reduce stress and to improve heart rate variability massage therapy is very essential. So body massage is best in reducing stress and promoting the maturation of preemies.
Massage promotes sleep:
Massage helps in lowers levels of cortisol and stress hormone among newborn babies. Melatonin regulate the sleep cycle among babies and with proper massage babies sleep faster and sleep longer.
Baby massage is safe or not?
The Baby’s skin is delicately soft and sensitive. So you need to take some precautions and safety measures:
Oil can easily dip into the eyes and mouth of a baby if you massage it on the face. So it’s better to avoid face massage.
Don’t be harsh on the baby’s soft skin and avoid deep massage as they are not ready for it.
Avoid 1 or 2 hours massage on little ones. Keep the massage short only for 5-10 minutes.
Stop massaging if the baby starts crying or falling asleep.
Avoid using artificial dyes, perfumes, and parabens on the baby’s skin.
Oil massage can make babies' skin slippery so it’s important to handle your baby with extra care.
Always adopt the proper method of massage and provide proper support to the ankle and wrist with your hand.
Benefits of massage for a mother:
Post Pregnancy care is very essential for mothers. It helps mothers to feel relaxed and improve the blood circulation among babies.
Pressure may be increased on blood vessels due to heavy uterus and imbalance of hormones and this leads to water retention and swelling of the joints. So it’s important to massage the soft tissues of the body to improve circulation and easily eliminate the fluid and toxins.
It’s important to stimulate the breast tissues so Postnatal massages with special techniques are very beneficial.
Reduce risks of Blocks and lumps in the breasts:
A proper massage is very essential to improve the milk flow and loosen out lumps. If you have a blocked milk duct in the breast then mastitis bacterial infection can be the reason.
Improve Stability, Posture, and Coordination:
It might be possible that core muscles stretch and become weak during pregnancy. A Grandma’s Secret involves postnatal massage to make the connective tissues relaxed. This is also beneficial to increase your strength.
For some women’s pregnancy can be very stressful because the body goes through many changes. A postnatal massage helps to beat the unwanted stress among mothers.
Helpful in glowing skin:
Massage improves blood circulation and helps stretch tissues. Massage is also helpful in reducing pregnancy stretch marks and glowing your skin.
Helpful in returning to Pre- Pregnancy body:
Massage helps in returning your body to Pre-Pregnancy. This will tuck your tummy back in by working on the muscles. Massage also improves blood flow among mothers and strengthens muscles.
Pet of the Week: Louie | Blog: The Pet Shop
Meet 10-year-old Louis. She came to the Red Dog Farm Animal Rescue Network when her mother got married and her new husband was allergic to cats. He stayed behind with his parents but was no longer able to take care of her. Louie had an indoor / outdoor cat in his previous home and he would prefer this type of home again. It will only work best as a pet. He is a very sweet man and loves his…
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Since tumblr does nothing about the p*rn bots and the blatant p*rn they post, i wonder if that means i can get away with posting some naughty art 🤔
How Do You Cope With Parenting Stress? https://www.kidsworldfun.com/blog/how-do-you-cope-with-parenting-stress/ Parenting is not a walk in the park. Navigating one’s journey as a parent in the modern world is very stressful indeed. How do we cope with parenting stress? #ParentingStress #StressfulParents #StressReliever #CausesOfStress #ParentingTips
A few days ago my colleague came up to me to tell me that i have two weeks of paid vacation time left for this year (i started the job in August). After googling the average paid time off in the USA (10 days apparently) it occured to me that the USA really is a dystopia when it comes to work and many people don't want to realize it????
I think about Lydia's distressed line when things go south in Roman Rogues, “Sasha is a terrible mother!!”, so much.
Do you think Sasha thinks about it sometimes, when her own childhood methods don't work, when they don't find the response she expected from the kids? Do you think she tries to not worry herself into a corner and then she still does that, panicking about not being a good parent boss for these kids, feeling everything thawing on her sense of self worth and stomping on things she thought rational and feasible for kids… how much Barrett and his sense of family will haunt her? How many times will she be scared of becoming closer to what Racketts were in her memories?
Until the kids are there for her. When she's sad, lonely, or works herself into a mood like that, they're there for her. They love her wholeheartedly just like she loves them, a bit awkward and troubled with their own actions and words, but-- they're there. They're her family, and even as bratty teens don't let her wallow in her worries too much.
Warning: this shit gets heavy. Like, really heavy.
Yeah, so I'm currently processing a thing that happened... Two days ago? I think it was yesterday, but you know how it is with an abusive household and memory issues.
So like, ever since I was a toddler watching my parents rage at each other through the glass door in the living room, hiding so they wouldn't see me and start screaming at me as well (ah, yes, those lovely childhood memories of getting disowned and standing in the rain for three hours because your parents just kind of forgot you existed. No YOU'RE bitter about your childhood, I'm completely fine) (a joke, btw, experiencing anger about shit of the past is completely normal, as well as any other complex emotions) one of my biggest fears is - you guessed it - my family members going into an uncontrollable rampage and harming/killing us all. And it's not like there weren't any possibilities, either, but the only place I will unpack all of those is in a therapist's office, so
And so you might say that my greatest fear has sorta kinda come true, because yesterday, about 1 o clock in the afternoon...
I had a gun put in my face by own brother.
Not a real one, thank god, but one of those half-real strikeball ones that can kill you, but mostly only harm you. Which is, surprisingly, not the first time he has threatened my life, but that is, again, a story for my non-existent therapist.
He was angry because he didn't want to have a conversation he was having - so he took the gun and started shooting around, scaring me half to death. So when I told him to stop throwing a tantrum and cut it off (not the best idea to provoke a man in that state, but hey, I was genuinely fucking scared), he raised it at me.
He might have shot me, right then and there. He might have fucking shot me. He might have
If he was careless enough, I might have been dead.
I screamed at him after that, of course, because what the fuck, man, I knew this was a possibility but to see it happen? In real life? And stormed out, half because I was furious and half because I was bordering on a panic attack.
When I did, I heard him quietly unmute the call (because even when you are threatening to shoot your own fucking sister you can't lose face in front of family members) and just,, continue talking, like nothing happened.
I'm genuinely terrified. What the fuck. What the fuck. What the fuck. How,, why?? Is this it? Is my nightmare a reality?
The gun - it looks like the real thing, it works like the real thing, it sounds like the real thing, it fucking shoots like the real thing, it's nearly identical. The line between that and an actual gun is so fucking thin it might as well be nonexistent. And he didn't even hesitate.
I don't know how to live with this. I'm so fucking afraid.
The worst thing is - now the knowledge that my seemingly unreasonable fear can actually happen will constantly be at the back of my mind. Every day. With every screaming match.
it is a bit tiring and mentally hard to be care taker, but everytime I do it, i feel fullfied in a way that nothibg else does.
I truly believe it is my purpose, after being abused by my own narcissitic mother, I'm glad it didn't make me apathetic or lack empathy.
I want to share my feelings and my story but it doesn't feel right so this will be the only post I do about this stuff 😅
If people like this post I may share more.
this is me and my baby cousin ❤