Develop Inner Strengh
As an elephant in the battlefield withstands arrows shot from bows all around, even so, shall I endure abuse There are many, indeed, who lack virtue.
A tamed elephant is led into a crowd, and the king mounts a tamed elephant. Best among men is the subdued one who endures abuse.
In the same time, we purify we star to do virtues but we still face our own negative past deed, what can take any form as possible.
Because few of us will understand what we going trough we need to rely on two things we never give up on us.
Rely on our true nature
When we meditate we get to understand our true nature and in time of trouble that vast compassionate state is our refuge.
Tara, Chenrezig all deities care for us, we practice then but we forgot that we can rely on them more than we think when family and friends turns there back we can fully on them.
Yes the path is full of hardship that will be lying saying the path is something we just walk, from the Buddha to all past masters we can see they all had same hardships. They also develop that inner strength.