i feel so safe with you
whenever im in your arms, whenever i hold your hand, whenever i look at you, i just realise I'm safe and I'm okay. you're there, and everything is good, there is nothing to worry about.
It's one of the most disgusting, ill-mannered, fuccked up questioned I have ever had to deal with in recent times, but it is also riveting.
This question is interesting to me because of two characters: Zeus from Greek Mythology, Indra from Hindu Mythology. Zeus and Indra had shape-shifting power, which they used in wooing women. People who believed in Greek and Hindu mythology never considered Zeus and Indra’s manipulation as molestation, it was rather considered romantic, playful, and blessing.
The difference between a transgender person and those so-called gods is Indra and Zerus were lying about who they were and a transgender person isn’t even though transphobic people assume that they are.
This is a two-part question, so let's answer both:
‘’Is a transgender person obligated to tell someone that they are transgender before they have sex with them?’’ —— A person isn’t obligated to reveal their gender neither legally nor morally.
‘’If a transgender person doesn’t reveal that they are trans, is it not ill-informed consent and molestation?’’ —— Gender has nothing to do with consent and informed consent only applies to medical procedures as far as I know.
Although legal and medical definitions vary, molestation is typically defined as oral, anal, or vaginal penetration that involves threats or forces against a person who is unwilling (ie, nonconsenting) or incapacitated (because of cognitive or physical disability or intoxication).
trans flag picked from rebecca chambers
free to use! credit is appreciated but not required. icon version under the cut.
"I'm sorry guys, it turns out I'm not *insert gender/sexuality*, I was just a bit confused."
Is perfectly valid. Want to use new pronouns? Go for it! Bi didn't quite fit, but pan does?! Identify with that! If you stop identifying as something, I'm not going to judge! I'm just glad that you're closer to finding yourself!
An interest check for the Trans Dangan pride zine has been released to the public! You are encouraged to fill it out with your thoughts on this project!
Sometimes a mirror is what shows you your dream.
I cannot believe I forgot to update you guys on this but I finally got my hair cut!! And my god, I realise now it was responsible for sooooo much of my dysphoria, like
Me, with long hair: hm, I’m looking at myself in the mirror, in masculine clothes, why do I feel so icky?
Me now, in the same clothes: oh I see.
Y’all @catgirlclaws is having a rough time mentally at work. Send her some encouraging memes and stuff for when she gets off work. I love her so much and she’s amazing and beautiful and awesome and strong. So send her memes and stuff and it could make her so happy.
My dream?
To find something lost
A beauty overlooked in this world, the simple pleasures of an old scholar, I will find it again one day.
My soul is lost in the past, and I wish to reclaim it.
Nonbinary & Lesbian flags picked from Neeko from League of Legends, for anon!
Only made an edit to see what my art would look like on clothes. Kinda proud of the result. Would you wear one of these?
![[ID: Two versions of a pride flag with horizontal stripes of different sizes. The colors are, from top to bottom, a thick red stripe, a thin black stripe, a thin orange stripe, a black stripe, a thin purple stripe, a thin black stripe, and a thick pink stripe.The second version has white text across the middle black stripe that reads, “she/her/hers/herself”.End ID.]she/her pronoun flag created by @walks-the-ages on my laptop since hers is a weird stupid tiny thing that doesn’t even have MS Paint. #pronoun flags #pronoun pride flags #she/her#she/her/hers/herself#she/her flag#eyestrain#eye-strain#eye strain #ask to tag #Walks makes pride flags #pronouns#queer#lgbt#MOGAI#nonbinary#trans#transgender#pride flags](https://64.media.tumblr.com/5393c3839e0acaa3aa5748d1da5edb97/221eb9db30322bd5-24/s1280x1920/4912890aa85e49e1ff7af2849de4506c58e9865e.png)
[ID: Two versions of a pride flag with horizontal stripes of different sizes. The colors are, from top to bottom, a thick red stripe, a thin black stripe, a thin orange stripe, a black stripe, a thin purple stripe, a thin black stripe, and a thick pink stripe.
The second version has white text across the middle black stripe that reads, “she/her/hers/herself”.
End ID.]
she/her pronoun flag created by @walks-the-ages on my laptop since hers is a weird stupid tiny thing that doesn’t even have MS Paint.
being trans is like
*deadnames myself in my head*
*gets mad at myself*
*feels even worse and deadnames myself again in the process of beating myself up for it*
Just a reminder that the campaign to share your trans and non-binary arts on our page ends on 1st January 2022!
Not sure what it is? That's fine! You can find the post that explains it all if you follow this link (it is also currently pinned on our page, but this may change between now and January): https://theenbycorner.tumblr.com/post/663330633718939648/i-am-soooooo-excited-to-announce-the-enbycorners
Get involved today!
-Falen, theenbycorner Creator and Owner
Rachel Leland Levine is an American pediatrician who has been the United States assistant secretary for health since March 26, 2021. She also is a Four Star Admiral in U.S Navy. She is a professor of pediatrics and psychiatry at the Penn State College of Medicine, and previously served as the Pennsylvania physician general from 2015 to 2017, then as secretary of the Pennsylvania Department of Health from 2017 to 2021. Levine is one of only a few openly transgender government officials in the United States, and is the first to hold an office that requires Senate confirmation.
