#tw transphobia Tumblr posts

  • anemodromos
    05.08.2021 - 2 hours ago

    trans people: even if you are trans, you don't have to be feminine to be a woman or masculine to be a man!! and you don't have to be androgynous to be nonbinary!!!

    r*df*ms somehow: trans people are literally forcing me personally and everyone else on earth to live by stereotypical gender roles!!!!!! they are no better than my conservative grandma!!!!

    #im a cis woman but the trans community helped me learn so much about my own womanhood and i feel so much more comfortable and free and i can #never be thankful enough!!!! #alexa.txt #tw: transphobia #just in case!!!
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  • fuckyeahasexual
    05.08.2021 - 10 hours ago

    Sex should be removed as a legal designation on the public part of birth certificates, the American Medical Association (AMA) said Monday. wb.md/3i41qIY

    Img Description: The blue logo of WebMD and text of their twitter name and handle. Followed by transcribed text, then another photograph of a 3D rainbow Pride flag.

    Here are some facts: 

    Race was once on your public birth certificate 

    Binary sex differentiation is a product of colonization 

    It is not rooted in the biological sciences but rather in eugenics 

    Here is what we must do: 

    Take sex off birth certificates for racial and gender justice

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  • sysmedsaresexist
    05.08.2021 - 10 hours ago

    “A trauma disorder shouldn’t be medicalized!”

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  • gayestpirate
    05.08.2021 - 10 hours ago
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  • your-lover-crutchy
    05.08.2021 - 12 hours ago

    me: crutchie my beloved !!! ahh my sunshine sweetheart dearest <33 i love him sooo much 💞💞 he deserves the world !!!! <3333

    also me: ok wait but what if he had like a ton of trauma and probably ptsd and anxiety and depression and bpd oh and his mom is dead and his dad is abusive and hes also dealing with internalized transphobia and homophobia oh and he has an ed and hes struggling with sh and-

    #HELP WHY DO I DO THIS TO HIM... PROJECTION INNIT #charlie.txt #dont rb #hoo boy theres a lotta tws #tw trauma mention #tw death mention #tw abuse mention #tw transphobia mention #tw homophobia mention #tw ed mention #tw self harm mention #tw emoji #wow thats a lot huh.
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  • wispdreams
    04.08.2021 - 14 hours ago

    So I had an argument with them and they compared me noticing them groan at the mention of trans people on tv to kids reporting their parents of them hiding jews???

    wow.

    I want to leave so bad.

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  • ask-shslpianist
    04.08.2021 - 15 hours ago

    [ Hey, everybody! Mod Ellie here! I have a quick PSA from one of my friends, Mod Keebs (who runs the Kirumi and non-despair Kiibo that I’ve interacted with here) that I was asked to post here, about their recent inactivity. I hope this clears up any possible questions, and I wish them well in their current situation! ]

    “Hey guys! It's Mod Keebs, making an announcement after what seems like forever!

    Okay, first of all, I'm not dead xD. Though, my blogs are, and that might be permanent.

    So what happened? Que paso? Why are Kiibo (technically Jiro cuz of the event) and Kirumi  gone? Well. Okay. Time to get personal.

    In August of 2020, I joined the DR community. I made a blog of my own (ND Kiibo.) and joined an existing one (Dangan-Happy.)

    And later that year, I made a discovery. Stuffz IRL started to become weird for me. I started to feel uncomfy around some shit and basically, I changed my name IRL. (Not legally lmao, socially.) Issue? I'm a minor, and my parents aren't that accepting.

    And it kinda got worse from there, until I realized some more stuff about myself that I hadn't before. Some dots that I hadn't aligned.

    So in March of 2021, I finally realized I was enby. Even worse shit from my parents.

    So what did I do? I told my close friends, and I vented quite a bit. I worried a lot about the shit that would (and did) happen if they found out, and I let that fear out in word.

    However, it was kind of excessive. And they found out.

    And low and behold, they banished me from Tumblr. And made me leave like, all my discord servers. My worst fears became true.

    I really wish I could come back, but I really can't rn. I'm only aloud on discord like, once a week, and Tumblr as a whole? Forget about it.

    I really miss DH, Jiro, Kirumi, Kiibo, and fuck it even the professor.

    But unless I can lay low, or some miracle fucking happens, that shit ain't happening.

    I'm sorry. This is actually, all my fault. I shouldn't have handled everything the way I did, and for that, I lost a huge passion.

    If I can come back, I promise. I have something planned for Kirumi. But that's a HUGE if.

    I miss y'all, a lot. Thank you, if you managed to read all this.”

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  • just-a-smol-spoon
    04.08.2021 - 16 hours ago
    #nonnie wonnie :( #tw transphobia
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  • cishetklutz
    04.08.2021 - 16 hours ago

    yall rly out here trying to "genderbend" nonbinary characters like its not literal transphobia

    #->neverending hum #the comments r even worse #genderbending tw#genderbend tw#transphobia tw #you would not believe the face i made when i read this
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  • midnight-radio-host
    04.08.2021 - 22 hours ago
    #tw transphobia #𝙄𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪'𝙫𝙚 𝙜𝙤𝙩 𝙦𝙪𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨.. (answers) #𝙒𝙚'𝙡𝙡 𝙨𝙠𝙞𝙥 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙤𝙣𝙚. (TW)
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  • plushybuttons
    04.08.2021 - 23 hours ago

    So apparently the new thing to do is to headcanon a dead man as “gender critical” because the alive guy has been decided to be too nice to trans people somehow despite y’know… everything.

    And now we have to care about the opinions of Graham Linehan and Neil Gaiman. A man who sends his dick to moms and a man who wrote that rendition of Snow White because “freeze peaches”. Two men who are cringe husbands and fail fathers and extremely straight.

    There’s something to be said about claiming to be the real feminists and then exposing the daughter of a deceased parent to the masses who are hounding her because of some shit that you yourself pulled out of your ass.

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  • anti-bright-places
    04.08.2021 - 23 hours ago
    #this is such a funny ask not gonna lie #tw transphobia
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  • behind-closet-doors
    04.08.2021 - 1 day ago
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  • ricardianed
    04.08.2021 - 1 day ago

    You either exist in blissful ignorance, or live long enough to see a seemingly liberal idol from the 80s become a low key trash human being

    #boy George#morrissey#whoops #I didn't know half of what a disgusting person morrissey is until today whoops #how can you write it takes strength to be gentle and kind and literally become a fascist what #smh#tw: racism#tw: transphobia
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  • gerbu
    04.08.2021 - 1 day ago

    Warning this is a very angry but vague vent about my mom with lots of cursing, mentions of neglect and ableism

    I’m so tired of my mom’s bs. I’m tired of having to explain myself to her, time and time again, only for her to forget. I’m tired of trying to explain and her not understanding. I’m tired of the constant mindgames when I’m upset, I’m tired of not being allowed to be mad, to be overwhelmed or upset, because then I’m rude and hurting her feelings. I’m tired of the crap she spews about me being rude to her when I had anxiety attacks for years that she didn’t do anything about. I’m tired of feeling like I don’t matter to her, I’m tired of feeling like no matter what I say she does what she wants, makes me do what she wants. I’m tired of her policing my body, my clothes, what I say and what I listen to and watch and consume. I want to be free. Even if she doesn’t mean too, she restricts how I dress. She says women who wear revealing clothes are “advertising themselves” and essentially preemptively victim blames them. I’m tired of her not letting me talk about who I am, because when I do she gives me that look that says, “I don’t believe you, I believe the preconceived notion of you that exists only in my head, I believe a fantasy I made for myself to cushion the blow of the notion that maybe, just maybe, I parented you wrong.” She doesn’t care about my ADHD, about my comfort. She makes do things I’m uncomfortable with and gets mad and huffy at me when all of a sudden I refuse to do them, as if I’M the one being unreasonable, like it’s MY fault I’m uncomfortable, why can’t I just shut up and comply? I’m fucking sick and tired of her making a show of me, making jokes about things that plague me daily and make life difficult to live, denying me who I am, telling me that even though she doesn’t know a SINGLE FUCKING THING ABOUT ME she still knows what’s best for me and who I am and who I will be. I want the freedom to be myself without being fucking questioned at every turn. It’s none of her fucking business who I am, what I do with my body, what I wear, whether or not I date. I’m me and she doesn’t get to see who that is, because it’s for me and me only, not for the one person who traumatized me, pushed me away when I needed her the most, refused to understand me, refused to listen to me, gave me lifelong issues that will drastically affect my life and yet the only apology I ever got was, “I’m sorry I yelled”

    That does jackshit.

    That doesn’t erase years of hurt and denial and pain and self harm.

    That doesn’t make her exempt from being a bad mom.

    It doesn’t matter how she feels about me. She needs to fucking accept that. She needs to fucking accept that sometimes her feelings don’t fucking matter, sometimes they aren’t above her child’s needs.

    The only fucking thing that matter is she hurt me, she continues to hurt me, she will, in the future, hurt me, and her love for me, no matter how deep, doesn’t erase any of that pain.

    #tw vent#tw cursing #tw mom issues #tw ableism #it’s painful because. it feels like she’s not that bad sometimes #and I still love her #and sometimes I lie to myself and say that I’m the problem here #and it would all go away if I just did what she wants #but a lot of the time I physically can’t #very confusing feelings #it feels like she did this with my best interests at heart even if she did fail miserably #honestly I think I just need to talk to her but every time I try she just. doesn’t understand #like she can’t grasp anything I say at all #it’s like talking to a very small child who doesn’t realize oh #MAYBE my child is SERIOUS when they say they aren’t a girl won’t ever be a girl and want to stop appearing as such #MAYBEEEE my child knows more than me about their personally life and identity #MAAAAAYYYYYBEEEEE SHOVING THEM IN A SMALL ROOM WHEN THEY HAD A MELTDOWN WASNT THE G R E A T E S T IDEA??? #adhd problems #tw implied transphobia #vent post #tw self harm #tw sh #tw self harm mention #tw sh mention
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  • lazyloversaturdays
    04.08.2021 - 1 day ago

    The Identity Checklist

    The thing they don't tell you

    When you come out is trans

    Is the laundry list of rules

    That comes with it.

    I don't stand correctly,

    (You're putting too much weight on your hip, and get your hand off of it!)

    I don't sit correctly,

    (Boys don't cross their legs, it looks too delicate.)

    I don't talk correctly,

    (Your voice is so high that you practically squeak!)

    I don't move correctly,

    (You put your wrists out like that? You look like a gay stereotype.)

    I don't dress correctly,

    (If you were really a boy, you wouldn't like the way you look in heels. And stop calling clothing cute! Boys don't do that!)

    I don't exist correctly,

    (Because you shouldn't exist at all.)

    To be who I am

    The way I am

    Is a constant exercise in validity.

    But the harshest,

    Coldest,

    Most painful part,

    Is that even if I exist

    In the way the world wants,

    It still isn't enough.

    And it never will be.

    No clothing,

    No uncrossed legs,

    No baritone in my voice

    Will ever be enough.

    And sometimes I think

    That what they don't tell you

    Is that you have to get used to the pain

    And be who you are anyway.

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  • kujos-sweetheart
    04.08.2021 - 1 day ago

    diversity loss idk how to tell ppl irl my pronouns and correct them without being annoying ;-; (whining in the tags ugh)

    #cami weeps #pronouns are. hard idk #i feel comfy with a few ppl using she/her for me #but mostly prefer they/them right #there are ppl at work that keep using she/her #even tho for every introduction im like 'they/them please' #and im like ? um? i just said?? they/them???? #there are a few coworkers im okay with doing that #my boss and my crush are the main ones im just like ya <3 #but we have these like older men being sexist towards me #and im. i stare at them like bro im not even a woman wtf lKFJA;LKSDJF #im just not used to. correcting ppl #like i changed pronouns over like. virtual school/work #so i could just put on zoom what my pronouns were and it was easy! #but irl ppl just see that i have a chest and theyre like #[points finger] Woman. #and im like actually no <3 that is not correct #but im too scared to actually correct them so i just die inside
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  • metal-and-his-boyfriends
    04.08.2021 - 1 day ago

    Thinking about that post I reblogged about queer people internalizing the 'being queer makes you unlovable' ideology. I sure as hell internalized it and still struggle with that sometimes. When I was figuring out that I was trans, I would think about it for like a day or two, but then be like 'no if I'm trans no one will like me'. That went on for MONTHS before I finally thought about it. When I actually got acceptance from my internet friends and they said they were proud of me and supported me, I literally cried bc that meant so much to me. I actually don't know what would've happened if I didn't have them. But ik for a fact that I would not have figured it out when I did if I hadn't joined Tumblr. It was bc I saw a post that said 'its ok to question yourself and then turn out to be cis/straight' and that just like triggered something in me. Then I thought about it and I've never really felt like a girl. I struggled when putting 'female' on forms and HATED being refered to as a woman. But I liked being refered to as a man. I don't remember much from when I figured it out but I do know I'm right about myself. (Sometimes I question that too and am just like 'wait what if I am cis' But like I hate my chest I want it to be flat. I want facial hair. I want a more masc body. I'm starting t soon. So I know that I'm not cis). But my point is that I internalized so much. Then like a month or two ago when I started to figure out that I'm ace, I had a lot of the 'im unlovable bc of this' feelings again. And it makes me mad that a lot of queer people experience this. Also as a neurodivergent and disabled person, I have those feeling over those things as well. So yeah, internalized transphobia, aphobia, and ableism :\

    #q word #tw internalized ableism #tw internalized transphobia #tw internalized aphobia #🌗verba ex lupum🌓
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