DAD SF9 A⇴Z HEADCANON ⇴ Kim Youngbin
A ⇴ AFFECTION
Youngbin is big on affection at the best of times, but especially so with you whilst your pregnant. Youngbin can’t get enough of your bump and making sure that you feel as loved by him as possible when in his embrace.
B ⇴ BUMP
He liked to make sure that he could take the best possible care of you and so Youngbin tried to do as much research as possible on all of the things that he could do to help you. Whether it was a massage, doing a job that you couldn’t do, or just listening to your concerns, he tried his hardest to support you with your bump.
C ⇴ CRAVINGS
Although quite a few of the combinations that you crave are a little bit weird, Youngbin is quite open to trying a few of them and seeing what you like about them. Usually once he’s tried them, Youngbin regrets how open minded he is, cringing at the taste of the foods, leaving him wondering even more why you like them.
D ⇴ DUE DATE
In the build up to your due date, Youngbin was keen to make sure that everything at work was organised so that he could take some time off to be with you. Youngbin was a hard worker at the best of times and so it didn’t take much for him to push that little bit harder to get everything that he needed to sort in order to give himself plenty of days before your due date to spend at home and look after you.
E ⇴ EMOTIONS
New challenges are always welcomed by Youngbin, and none are bigger than parenthood. He can’t wait to throw himself into becoming a dad and learn as much as he possibly can. He knows it’s going to be tough at times, but between the two of you Youngbin knows the two of you are more than capable of being great parents and can’t wait to welcome your baby and start a new chapter in both of your lives.
F ⇴ FAMILY
One of your favourite things about Youngbin’s family is the fact that his two elder sisters always side with you against Youngbin. Whenever you’re struggling to decide or you want to beat Youngbin when choosing something, they always make sure to back you first and make sure that their little brother listens to what they have to say, giving him no choice but to cave and give you what you want which you absolutely love.
G ⇴ GENDER
He wasn’t particularly bothered whether you found out the gender of your baby or not, and so Youngbin decided to leave it up to you. He promised you that either way you went, he would be happy, he didn’t mind too much whether you found out or not, the only thing that Youngbin wanted to know at every one of your appointments was that your baby was growing healthily as they were supposed to.
H ⇴ HEARTBEAT
Hearing the beat of your baby’s heart always made Youngbin feel incredibly lucky about the fact that he was about to become a dad. He was grateful for the opportunity, for the fact that his baby was growing healthily and that he got the chance to hear how they were doing, easing his mind and worries until the next appointment.
I ⇴ “I LOVE YOU”
The way he takes care of you is how Youngbin always makes sure to let you know that he loves you, he hates leaving you by yourself, whenever he can he’ll give you a hug or a kiss to let you know that he loves you rather than saying it aloud, often preferring to physically show you how he feels instead of verbally.
J ⇴ JEALOUSY
The others loved to tease Youngbin about the fact that the mother of the group was actually becoming a father to a baby, not just the other members. Their comments never made Youngbin jealous, in fact he quite liked that they had given him years of practice on how to look after someone else so that he had learnt plenty of the basics to be able to do the best possible job of looking after your baby too.
K ⇴ KICKS
Feeling the kicks of your baby drove Youngbin up the wall, he absolutely loved being able to feel your baby wriggling around, turning into a big kid himself. Roars of giggles would always come, with his legs often kicking around when your baby kicked particularly hard, barely able to contain himself at the feeling.
L ⇴ LABOUR
He was there beside you to give you advice whenever you needed it whilst you were in labour, he would talk you through everything and reassure you when you needed to hear his voice too, knowing exactly what to say. His words of wisdom were the boosts that you needed whenever you began to doubt yourself or feel as if you were ready to give up as a result of the pain that you felt during labour.
M ⇴ MORNING SICKNESS
Most mornings it takes Youngbin a little bit of time to wake up and comfort you, he hates waking up in the mornings, even if you’re being sick. You usually end up having to give it a few moments until Youngbin appears by your side, still slightly sleepy as he sits down beside you and runs his hand along the length of your back.
N ⇴ NURSERY
Although he had very little experience when it came to decorating, Youngbin was quite excited to give it a go for the first time, with no greater time to learn how to paint and build then to put together your baby’s nursery.
O ⇴ OBSESSION
Youngbin was obsessed with your personality, he loved that you were the person that he got to call the mother of his child, you had all of the qualities he hoped would be passed down to his child whenever he settled down.
P ⇴ POST BIRTH
He was very cautious around you after you gave birth, making sure that you didn’t rush into anything. He knew that you liked to pretend that you were fine, but after you gave birth, Youngbin put his foot down and make sure that he had as much control as possible to make sure you took your time in recovering.
Q ⇴ QUESTIONS
Youngbin always asks you if there’s anything that you need, knowing how difficult it is for you to be up on your feet sometimes, he’s always more than happy to pick up what you need in a much quicker time too.
R ⇴ RANDOM FACTS
One of the things that Youngbin wanted to pass down to your baby was his love of affection, and so Youngbin made sure that your baby’s nursery was filled with stuffed toys that they would be able to cuddle up to, making sure that they felt cosy at all times, especially when Youngbin wasn’t able to hug them.
S ⇴ SCANS
Youngbin loved to keep your scan photos at work, especially to give him the motivation that he needed. When he felt as if he was ready to give up and go home, a look at the photo would remind him that he needed to get as much done as he could now so that he had the time to spend at home when he was needed.
T ⇴ TEST
The two of you had discussed having children, agreeing that it was something that you wanted at some point in your lives, although you never imagined that it would happen quite as quickly as it did for you both.
U ⇴ ULTRASOUND
Nothing was more important for Youngbin then your baby, and so whenever you had appointments, he was always there to support you at them.
V ⇴ VISITS
The three of you didn’t get too much time together as Youngbin’s sisters especially were keen to visit your baby as soon as possible, as well as making sure that they were there to look after you too when Youngbin went back to work.
W ⇴ WAITING
Most of the time Youngbin is patient, although he’s excited, he appreciates that your baby needs the time to grow before arriving.
X ⇴ XXXX
It’s instinct for Youngbin that whenever he cuddles you and your bump, he kisses you too. He always makes sure to shower you in affection, it doesn’t matter where you are or what you’re doing, he’s always ready to kiss you.
Y ⇴ YOU
You were his best friend, there was no one else that Youngbin wanted to settle down with.
Z ⇴ ZZZ
In the mornings, Youngbin tends to encourage you to try and stay in bed with him for as long as possible so that you can rest, he wants to keep you comfortable in bed for as long as possible whilst your baby is still.