there’s this youtuber that posted an hour long video of her and her family tricking their grandparents into going on a two week vacation so that they could go into their house and completely renovate it. without the grandparents knowledge or permission. like this family is going through their belongings, their clothes, their jewelry. even their fucking medicine. and keeping some of it and throwing everything else out. they redid the guest bedrooms and turned them into an exercise room and a craft room. they turned the master bedroom inside out. it’s horrifying to watch and low key kinda disturbing. like this family feels so entitled to make decisions for their independent and healthy grandparents. but they have to trick them in order to do it.